Yes, I've been there, done that, and got the T-Shirt. My worst relationship was one where we rushed into intimacy and it clouded our judgment. After a couple years I came to the realization that all we had in common was sex and we crashed and burned after that.
Divorcing prior to therapy in my opinion is quitting early. Some egregious offenses like cheating are understandable but if it's communication or trust issues I think you should go try to do the work before quitting.
I do not like the term "friends first" because it alludes to the relationship being platonic with romance being some random far off probability. I feel the more accurate statement is "building our relationship on a foundation of friendship". The latter statement shows that you are indeed in a...
Think about it, Prior to 2001, who would use the term Ether to describe something as "offensive, disrespectful, hurtful, piercing, etc"? I personally do not remember a time where that word was ever used until Nas dropped Ether on Jay-Z (Pun fully intended). That's why I conclude that Ether...
They learn these non-cooperative behaviors and then become competitors rather collaborators with the men of their generation. It's problematic and cyclical.
In looking to liberate Black women they end up objectifying them and reinforcing the "women are only good for sex" form of thinking. Black women are classy, gorgeous, majestic, and we do not see that displayed in the mainstream. With that said, it is our job to do so and this board is a step in...
Yes we need to always adapt to our situation and not rest on what worked in the past or tradition. We need to be like water and fluid and that’s how my lady and I are.
Very fair explanation and how my relationship currently is. We have our masculine/feminine polarity but we are very fluid in that we cover each other when needed. I cook some days, she cooks the next, when she cooks I clean, and etc. I think it’s the best for us, it makes it so that we both can...
I always wondered if dogs become sick of that disgusting looking dry food. Some of my friend’s dogs start wildin’ out when there’s some real food on the table. Dog keeps coming by the table:
Precisely. I wish they would just be honest about it and move on. You look like a plum fool when you try to have the public believe that person in the video DID NOT look like a man to you. I knew it was a man in 1 second.
Good thing you didn’t join as the mathematics do not add up. I always break it down to people as such: There’s 10 people in this neighborhood who will buy your item You get $2 for selling to them directly You get $1 if I sell to them as your down line You will make $20 if you get those 10...
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