That's really creepy. I would have done the same thing and had someone pick me up. That kind of thing is even scarier when it happens at a job where you have to be there everyday and they know that.
For real. I told my manager right away and I actually took a few days off work to hopefully make the dude think I quit or something. I never saw him after that. I don't know what his deal was but I did not want to find out. It just put me off completely. Like if you want to approach a woman you are interested in, that is like one of the worst ways to go about it!
I’ve definitely been there as a man and dating a narcissist. This post rang so true and it was hard to get out especially since we had a child together. But ultimately I had to prioritize myself and my son’s mental health and I bounced….my life improved so much after.
I went on a date with this one chick I met on a dating site. We chatted for a few months before we met though, and I thought she was perfect for me. Like she enjoyed everything I liked, from the food (or so I thought), to the shows and movies. So I was thinking I found the one, this is it ya know.
After we chatted so much, I finally mentioned we should meet. I'm a little self conscious so it takes me a while to meet someone. But I felt like she was worth it, so I pushed myself to ask to meet her in person. So I did. She agreed pretty much right away and we scheduled to meet a few weeks later.
Well, we talked a lot before the meet, and everything was good. We discussed where we'd meet, and so on. The date was set, and I was ready to meet her. I went to the place we were meeting, and it took her a long time to find me for some reason. I saw a car which I believed to be hers, because the car kept driving around the location, like she had nerves or something. I decided to take her to this awesome restaurant that served this great steak that I could never get enough of. I felt it'd be a fun surprise.
She looks exactly like she did in the photos as well, so no catfish or crazy person here. Well... we started to get the menus to order our food, and it was like a switch flipped. She demanded no food with meat, and said that I will not be eating meat going forward. She made a big fuss about it, that I couldn't eat meat. She told me she's a vegetarian and doesn't eat meat, and if I wanted to "keep this relationship going" I would have to eat like her. This was news to me of course.
As you can guess, my expression at this point
I love meat, like damn, I ain't cutting out meat in my life. Hell with that. I tell her this, and explain she never told me she was a vegetarian when we chatted. I even said to her in text multiple times about foods I was eating, and a lot of that included meat, and she never made a fuss about that. Like ever. She blew up on me, saying I wasted her time for bringing her out to eat there, and I yelled back saying she never told me once that she was a vegetarian. I don't think I would have even dated her to begin with if so. I can't take crazy vegetarian who try to make you feel bad for eating meat.
Anyway, I was like, peace oot and left. She texted me later that day called me all kinds of names, calling me the F word, saying I was gay for not wanting her and all this, and that I should change my eating habits. She was gorgeous, but so toxic that it was not worth it. I'd rather move on and find someone else.
😬😬 Lololno doubt
One time, I was on a date with a Mexican woman and she kept talking about how proud she was of immigrants and how they are so brave and smart and I asked:
“if they were so smart why couldn’t they make it work in the own country”
***she talks about structural issues that prevented them from succeeding***
“but Black Americans had those same issues here and fought which is why non-whites have rights and are even allowed in the country, if they were brave they would have done the same in their homeland”
***she pauses***
“I don’t think you’re brave if you run from your country, I think you’re a coward”
***she looks flabbergasted***
me:
Damn nigga why you go for the jugular like that?no doubt
One time, I was on a date with a Mexican woman and she kept talking about how proud she was of immigrants and how they are so brave and smart and I asked:
“if they were so smart why couldn’t they make it work in the own country”
***she talks about structural issues that prevented them from succeeding***
“but Black Americans had those same issues here and fought which is why non-whites have rights and are even allowed in the country, if they were brave they would have done the same in their homeland”
***she pauses***
“I don’t think you’re brave if you run from your country, I think you’re a coward”
***she looks flabbergasted***
me:
Damn nigga I don’t know if that is Hit ‘em Up or Ether level right there.no doubt
One time, I was on a date with a Mexican woman and she kept talking about how proud she was of immigrants and how they are so brave and smart and I asked:
“if they were so smart why couldn’t they make it work in the own country”
***she talks about structural issues that prevented them from succeeding***
“but Black Americans had those same issues here and fought which is why non-whites have rights and are even allowed in the country, if they were brave they would have done the same in their homeland”
***she pauses***
“I don’t think you’re brave if you run from your country, I think you’re a coward”
***she looks flabbergasted***
me:
to 
very quickly. Wow she was nuts…she needed to take her pills.
I went on a date with this one chick I met on a dating site. We chatted for a few months before we met though, and I thought she was perfect for me. Like she enjoyed everything I liked, from the food (or so I thought), to the shows and movies. So I was thinking I found the one, this is it ya know.
After we chatted so much, I finally mentioned we should meet. I'm a little self conscious so it takes me a while to meet someone. But I felt like she was worth it, so I pushed myself to ask to meet her in person. So I did. She agreed pretty much right away and we scheduled to meet a few weeks later.
Well, we talked a lot before the meet, and everything was good. We discussed where we'd meet, and so on. The date was set, and I was ready to meet her. I went to the place we were meeting, and it took her a long time to find me for some reason. I saw a car which I believed to be hers, because the car kept driving around the location, like she had nerves or something. I decided to take her to this awesome restaurant that served this great steak that I could never get enough of. I felt it'd be a fun surprise.
She looks exactly like she did in the photos as well, so no catfish or crazy person here. Well... we started to get the menus to order our food, and it was like a switch flipped. She demanded no food with meat, and said that I will not be eating meat going forward. She made a big fuss about it, that I couldn't eat meat. She told me she's a vegetarian and doesn't eat meat, and if I wanted to "keep this relationship going" I would have to eat like her. This was news to me of course.
As you can guess, my expression at this point
I love meat, like damn, I ain't cutting out meat in my life. Hell with that. I tell her this, and explain she never told me she was a vegetarian when we chatted. I even said to her in text multiple times about foods I was eating, and a lot of that included meat, and she never made a fuss about that. Like ever. She blew up on me, saying I wasted her time for bringing her out to eat there, and I yelled back saying she never told me once that she was a vegetarian. I don't think I would have even dated her to begin with if so. I can't take crazy vegetarian who try to make you feel bad for eating meat.
Anyway, I was like, peace oot and left. She texted me later that day called me all kinds of names, calling me the F word, saying I was gay for not wanting her and all this, and that I should change my eating habits. She was gorgeous, but so toxic that it was not worth it. I'd rather move on and find someone else.
Bitch crazyThat's exactly what it sounded like. You saved yourself a lot of stress.
Wow. We never can tell who is watching us. We all gotta be careful.
Yep. Fully agree. Customers come in, and sometimes employees don't even notice because they are too busy working.
