I notice that many women in this space do something. They use language as if they are speaking for all black women. They don't say some, they don't say black women who are in my category or whatever, they say 'black women'. It's a tactic. There are millions and millions of Black women with all kinds of looks, situations and everything. Saying 'black women' as a consensus is willfully wrong. It's wrong with brothers do it as well. Pookie and Ray and Robert K Smith are in completely different classes, etc. Anyway, it's really an excuse to date Brad. Date who ya wanna date. As I said in another thread, 5, 10 years from now, especially when she is north of 30, her options will dry up from spending her 'best' years dating Brad and no Brad producer is likely to pass over similar white, asian and latina women to marry a sista no matter how much I feel sistas are the best thing since sliced bread. I don't trip over these type of sisters (or brothers). Especially the sisters because over time they lose, damn near all. The few they hold up as success are the rare exception.