The Cookout

[Deleted member 1348]

Okay, I don't wanna come off like I'm the most suave`, smooth playah with all his ish together like that. I'm "i-ight"..lol. I have been watching this woman's dating program for a minute.
If this is the average brotha or sista out there, dating in black America is over. Finished. Its a wrap. Finito. I've seen maybe...maybe..1 or 2 men or woman that would be datable, meaning I and most men would date the woman or a man I would feel comfortable introducing to a homegirl. Now, I do think the dating requirements most of the women especially make are what they would like but know they ain't gonna get. The men are jacked up, ain't got their ish together or mumble mouth, don't know how to communicate, lacking presence, seem like they been raised by a single mom who didn't have no black male authority figure at all around them in their upbringing.

Am I being wrong and 'elitist'? Or on the money?

https://www.youtube.com/c/KendraGMedia/videos

 

[Red Velvet]

Okay, I don't wanna come off like I'm the most suave`, smooth playah with all his ish together like that. I'm "i-ight"..lol. I have been watching this woman's dating program for a minute.
If this is the average brotha or sista out there, dating in black America is over. Finished. Its a wrap. Finito. I've seen maybe...maybe..1 or 2 men or woman that would be datable, meaning I and most men would date the woman or a man I would feel comfortable introducing to a homegirl. Now, I do think the dating requirements most of the women especially make are what they would like but know they ain't gonna get. The men are jacked up, ain't got their ish together or mumble mouth, don't know how to communicate, lacking presence, seem like they been raised by a single mom who didn't have no black male authority figure at all around them in their upbringing.

Am I being wrong and 'elitist'? Or on the money?

https://www.youtube.com/c/KendraGMedia/videos

True love would not be worth it if it was easy to find.

 

[Boss Hog]

Okay, I don't wanna come off like I'm the most suave`, smooth playah with all his ish together like that. I'm "i-ight"..lol. I have been watching this woman's dating program for a minute.
If this is the average brotha or sista out there, dating in black America is over. Finished. Its a wrap. Finito. I've seen maybe...maybe..1 or 2 men or woman that would be datable, meaning I and most men would date the woman or a man I would feel comfortable introducing to a homegirl. Now, I do think the dating requirements most of the women especially make are what they would like but know they ain't gonna get. The men are jacked up, ain't got their ish together or mumble mouth, don't know how to communicate, lacking presence, seem like they been raised by a single mom who didn't have no black male authority figure at all around them in their upbringing.

Am I being wrong and 'elitist'? Or on the money?

https://www.youtube.com/c/KendraGMedia/videos

It’s hard out here but the internet be highlighting the worst elements. There’s some really good women out here they just get snatched up right away.

 

[Sovereign]

True love would not be worth it if it was easy to find.

True but it shouldn‘t be this hard either. The amount of entitlement nowadays is unbearable.

 

[Tati 304]

True but it shouldn‘t be this hard either. The amount of entitlement nowadays is unbearable.

The men with the largest complaints be the ones who don‘t have their act together.

 

[Sovereign]

The men with the largest complaints be the ones who don‘t have their act together.

Did you not watch the videos? These women be out to lunch. Be a dollar tree cashier talking about a man needs to have an S Class.

 

[Sapphire]

True but it shouldn‘t be this hard either. The amount of entitlement nowadays is unbearable.

I think that has to do with materialism. A lot of women want a man who can buy them things but they don't want to put in any work to sustain the relationship. I had a friend like this, she refused to be with a dude if he was making less than 60k a year. Said that her standards went up as she got older now it is 100k.

This was a few years back. I haven't seen or spoken to her in a minute but I can bet you she raised it again "due to inflation"

 

[Deleted member 1348]

I think the women who aren't 100k a year man material say that in case they happen to get lucky. I think they figure, why not ask and see if some 100k a year simp bites, knowing its unlikely.

A lot of the brothers dusty and dusty knee grows will always ask. I will admit lately I've been seeing a wee bit better quality seep in there. The chat room is savage AF and likely people who go on there to throw shade at people who are just like them. To make themselves feel better they take shots at everyone.

Especially the brothers. I don't think I've yet to see a consensus among brothers for any woman who appeared on there.