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Sisters, What's The Biggest Dating Issues W/Brothas?
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<blockquote data-quote="Extraterrestrial BLKup♾️" data-source="post: 94732" data-attributes="member: 2008"><p>My POV is skewed 🤓☕,</p><p> coming out of the 10+relationship... </p><p>I've been single for 3 years now. And sadly I don't miss it..... </p><p>The process of "courting" is not the same anymore. My personal grievance with getting back into the dating pool is;</p><p>I feel that I'm "supposed to be" vapid and/or mentally pliable like clay🙃or AI🤖 but at 41 years old I'm not.☕.. 👁️🗨️I have my own thoughts and although I might be amused by trending topics🤓♾️</p><p> I enjoy a "simp" 😭 I feel the reason that Grandma and Grandpa stay together so long is that he knew the art of romancing and there's no longer any romance in the dating pool.</p><p>There is also no chivalry. Lately I see a lot of conversations about who should pay for dates... I have no problem being a strong, "independent" black woman, but I do desire the opportunity to be soft at least in my relationship. I desire the opportunity to be vulnerable. If I'm dating a man that I'm interested in I don't want lukewarm affections.</p><p>And when residing together down the line, I don't want to feel the urge to say "I can do bad all by myself". Struggle love is a big NO for me. I feel as if I have dating PTSD 😅🤫 My dating preference is 55-39 but sadly the black males that I am familiar with (in person) their mental maturity is stuck around 16-23 😭 they are perfectly happy with the status quo. They have no ambition to do anything better then obtain a vehicle, make just enough money to buy Jordans every two weeks+ a bottle and Marijuana then pay probation ☕ or child support, 😭 But IdK 😐.... Appreciate the conversation starter though 💜🅾️🅾️🅾️🅾️🅾️🅾️👑🔥</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Extraterrestrial BLKup♾️, post: 94732, member: 2008"] My POV is skewed 🤓☕, coming out of the 10+relationship... I've been single for 3 years now. And sadly I don't miss it..... The process of "courting" is not the same anymore. My personal grievance with getting back into the dating pool is; I feel that I'm "supposed to be" vapid and/or mentally pliable like clay🙃or AI🤖 but at 41 years old I'm not.☕.. 👁️🗨️I have my own thoughts and although I might be amused by trending topics🤓♾️ I enjoy a "simp" 😭 I feel the reason that Grandma and Grandpa stay together so long is that he knew the art of romancing and there's no longer any romance in the dating pool. There is also no chivalry. Lately I see a lot of conversations about who should pay for dates... I have no problem being a strong, "independent" black woman, but I do desire the opportunity to be soft at least in my relationship. I desire the opportunity to be vulnerable. If I'm dating a man that I'm interested in I don't want lukewarm affections. And when residing together down the line, I don't want to feel the urge to say "I can do bad all by myself". Struggle love is a big NO for me. I feel as if I have dating PTSD 😅🤫 My dating preference is 55-39 but sadly the black males that I am familiar with (in person) their mental maturity is stuck around 16-23 😭 they are perfectly happy with the status quo. They have no ambition to do anything better then obtain a vehicle, make just enough money to buy Jordans every two weeks+ a bottle and Marijuana then pay probation ☕ or child support, 😭 But IdK 😐.... Appreciate the conversation starter though 💜🅾️🅾️🅾️🅾️🅾️🅾️👑🔥 [/QUOTE]
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