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Sisters, What's The Biggest Dating Issues W/Brothas?
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<blockquote data-quote="Extraterrestrial BLKup♾️" data-source="post: 94734" data-attributes="member: 2008"><p>The comfortable men that I mentioned are the ones who actually have the confidence to demand that I ..."<strong>smile</strong>"as I walk past versus the good guy that I seek, would <em>probably say</em> "oh your beautiful 🌺, Can I have a smile".... So to answer the first question; No👁️🗨️ I don't believe it's the <strong>NorM</strong>. </p><p>I just believe it's the majority. </p><p> As for the question number two, my dating history extends back 25 years but I'm a "long-term" chick (Wifey) so over the past 25 years I've really only had three relationships the high school sweetheart . The nightclub bouncer (very transparent) and most recently the Perpetrator ( The Great pretender)... When I relocated to Gainesville in 2010 he was a co-worker and indeed a wolf in sheep's clothing. He maintained a facade for a very long time, especially after me reading Steve Harvey's book and requiring him to wait 90 days before intercourse. He had been in prisoned at the age of 17 and when we became friends at the workplace his line about enjoying the rain because the opportunity to get caught in the rain had been denied from him... He was this awesome life partner for a long time about 4years into the relationship he changed, but he was strongly influenced by his peers/brothers who stay in and out of jail/prison. They constantly called me LAME 🤓and called him PussWwwhipped. I ignored about a thousand🚩 red flags 🤔🚩 I put him out of my car on one of our first dates (before sex). 😄 I <em>politely</em> leaned over and popped the door on his side and ask him to GTFO 🙃 Anyway, I believe I'm an empath, 🦇💩 👀👁️if I get a bad vibe, I ghost real quick as dating vet. In regards to their CONSCIOUSNESS 😭 SMH my GenX FLBro's =20% didn't/don't even bother to obtain their <strong>GED</strong>, 10% <strong>fake</strong> hotel, 8% <strong>jailhouse</strong> NOI 😭😐... 👁️🗨️My ex was starting to wake up to certain things but decided to put the glasses back on. He's of the mindset <strong><em>ignorance</em></strong> is <em>bliss</em>. Other average black man here are zombies willing to do whatever gets them a paycheck. This is my skewed perspective/<strong>opinion</strong> only. <img src="https://media3.giphy.com/media/zg5STezidLaZW/200.gif" alt="obey roddy piper GIF" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Extraterrestrial BLKup♾️, post: 94734, member: 2008"] The comfortable men that I mentioned are the ones who actually have the confidence to demand that I ..."[B]smile[/B]"as I walk past versus the good guy that I seek, would [I]probably say[/I] "oh your beautiful 🌺, Can I have a smile".... So to answer the first question; No👁️🗨️ I don't believe it's the [B]NorM[/B]. I just believe it's the majority. As for the question number two, my dating history extends back 25 years but I'm a "long-term" chick (Wifey) so over the past 25 years I've really only had three relationships the high school sweetheart . The nightclub bouncer (very transparent) and most recently the Perpetrator ( The Great pretender)... When I relocated to Gainesville in 2010 he was a co-worker and indeed a wolf in sheep's clothing. He maintained a facade for a very long time, especially after me reading Steve Harvey's book and requiring him to wait 90 days before intercourse. He had been in prisoned at the age of 17 and when we became friends at the workplace his line about enjoying the rain because the opportunity to get caught in the rain had been denied from him... He was this awesome life partner for a long time about 4years into the relationship he changed, but he was strongly influenced by his peers/brothers who stay in and out of jail/prison. They constantly called me LAME 🤓and called him PussWwwhipped. I ignored about a thousand🚩 red flags 🤔🚩 I put him out of my car on one of our first dates (before sex). 😄 I [I]politely[/I] leaned over and popped the door on his side and ask him to GTFO 🙃 Anyway, I believe I'm an empath, 🦇💩 👀👁️if I get a bad vibe, I ghost real quick as dating vet. In regards to their CONSCIOUSNESS 😭 SMH my GenX FLBro's =20% didn't/don't even bother to obtain their [B]GED[/B], 10% [B]fake[/B] hotel, 8% [B]jailhouse[/B] NOI 😭😐... 👁️🗨️My ex was starting to wake up to certain things but decided to put the glasses back on. He's of the mindset [B][I]ignorance[/I][/B] is [I]bliss[/I]. Other average black man here are zombies willing to do whatever gets them a paycheck. This is my skewed perspective/[B]opinion[/B] only. [IMG alt="obey roddy piper GIF"]https://media3.giphy.com/media/zg5STezidLaZW/200.gif[/IMG] [/QUOTE]
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