I'm good. Pretty much every brotha I know dated a Becky, myself included. Pretty much every sista I know who grew up in the suburbs or worked in an office dated at least one white boy if not a non black guy (Latino, Arab, etc).
That's normal. Three things struck me that made me pass. First, she met him on a dating app. It wasn't organic. Meaning maybe at the same job, same health club, struck up a convo and it developed. She met him on a dating app meaning she swiped right. So, maybe he was just someone interesting among black men or she was specifically looking for white men. I'm going with the latter. Second, marriage is a helluva commitment. Maybe she just happened marry a guy she vibed with. She said before him she 'didn't date much'. Hmm...that suggests something to me. I won't just now. Last, she is from Grenada in the Caribbean. Most of the Caribbean girls I knew who were born, grew up in part in the islands, married either another person from their island or a white boy. It was either or both.
She may be what I was saying in the other thread on interracial dating. A lot of them will go the other route, get ran through or a bad experience and come back.
For me, I'd have to be sure she's pro Black. George Lucas' wife Mellody Hobson a sista, seems pro black to me. I say that because she's usually credited with him making Red Tails, the Tuskeegee airmen movie. She opened his eyes to institutional racism in Hollywood. He said he had a lot of trouble getting the movie done. I hear him say once. He said that he's George Lucas, movie studios roll out the red carpet for him, they have always financed his projects since Star Wars became a hit in 1976 and they were fighting him on making this even though his name was all over it and he had big names at the time: Cuba Gooding Jr, Terrence Howard, Neyo the singer, a younger Michael B. Jordan, Method Man had an appearance. The studios fought him on it an he had put up a lot of his own money.
She also used his money to buy the Ebony photo library so it wouldn't go into non black hands.
The sista above is cute and refined but I'd have to know where her head is at and she better be pro black AF..lol. Not lukewarm. Her paperwork is a bit dirty as it is. Just me, others may think she's fine enough and that's okay too. I'm not the dick detective. My only criteria for judging is are you pro or anti black and the medical doctor's creed 'Do no harm'.
