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I've been through this too many times lol I was out with a group of friends, and we all stopped to get something to eat. It was a busy walk-up restaurant, so when we put our orders in, we had to go to separate windows to grab our food. As soon as they got their food, they left me and sat down...

For me, it's when the guy treats it too much like an interview and grills me with questions. Questions are a great way to get to know someone, but it needs to flow smoothly in conversation. I don't want to feel like I'm on the witness stand lol

As with a lot of things, I feel like I'm right in the middle of the introvert/extrovert line. That gets me into a lot of trouble because I always make plans when I'm feeling "extroverted" but never want to do them when the time comes. I always end up going and having fun, but the day of I'm...

How do you feel about the person you're in a relationship with having their exes on social media? I don't care unless they show me that I need to care lol Obviously, if they're talking daily or sending flirty messages, that's a problem. But if they're going to cheat, I feel like they can do that...

I know this doesn't happen but it still got me lol I feel like this is something they'll try one day nialongupset

I know some girls that share every single detail. I feel like anything too personal should be kept between the person I'm dating and me. If I need advice on something, I'll share a little more, or if it's a funny story I'll share if I feel like it's ok.

Whenever I'm stressed, I try to take some deep breaths and I might make a list of whatever is bothering me. I also find that listening to music or getting outside for a bit (If I can) helps. Do you have any tips for dealing with stress?

I know this really depends on the person and every relationship is different. I don't have any set "rules" but in general, I think saying "I love you" right away, moving in, or getting married under a year together is too fast. But I guess, I would be open to anything if it felt right lol

Earlier, I was thinking about how we see so many people post on social media, and how different the posts are from their actual life. I always found it funny to see groups of friends recording themselves laughing and having a good time, and as soon as they stop recording they all go back to...

I'm kind of on the fence about it. If you connect, but the situation isn't right, that doesn't make you less compatible with the person. I can also see why people don't believe in it and say the right person at the wrong time is the wrong person. Either way, I don't think it's healthy to dwell...

I haven't but I had a friend that did. She saw this guy for a few months and come to find out, he was in a pretty long term relationship with another girl. They had a really big falling out and I think she ended up contacting the other girl and told her about everything. It was all a really big...

I usually like to get the flavored coffee grounds and creamer. I'm not a big coffee drinker but I'll have a cup or so in the mornings to start the day. Every now and then I'll get something from Starbucks but that's usually just when they have their holiday flavors out lol

Admittedly, there's a lot that tests my patience lol But one thing I really can't stand is when people are know-it-alls and try to one-up everything you say or do. I don't mind hearing about your successes but let it be a two-way convo instead of cutting in every 5 seconds with something you've...

I'd like to say I'm the type that doesn't go back to a relationship when it's over, but that would be a lie lol It hasn't gone that way with every relationship I've been in, but I have had one where it became complicated towards the end. We eventually ended things for good, but it took a lot of...

I don't have any coworkers that are too bad right now, but I've had some pretty bad ones in the past. It was mostly just our personalities clashing, and it made for a lot of tension in close quarters. I've also had a few that were just really nosey and wanted to talk about personal matters. I...

This is a long read but apparently the water in Benton Harbor, MI is extremely poisoned - Even worse than Flint. The nearby "white town", St. Joseph, of course has perfect water. This has been going on for three years without the city, county, or state taking any action despite the water...

Are you still friends with anyone from your childhood? I'm not friends with any of them which I guess is kind of sad lol Most of them I just grew a part from but I did have a pretty big falling out with my best friend in high school. I've wondered how a few of them are doing but I think it's...

Back before Covid I always loved traveling. Since last year, I've been able to travel around the state and I went to see family a few months ago but I'm ready to go out and see some new places. I've already cancelled several big trips so hopefully I can reschedule for next year! Do you like to...

I like to think I'm a spontaneous planner lol I like to plan and have a set outline for whatever I'm doing but I can adapt if I need to. I used to plan too much but I've learned it's better for me to do whatever planning I can and then not stress about it.

I thought this would be interesting. Maybe we can even check back at the end of the year and see how we did? My goals for the year were to read more books, create a better work/life balance, and maintain a better workout schedule. So far, I've read more books and I feel like I'm just now...