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    Two-faced friends, ever had em?

    I had a friend growing up who couldn't stand me to have any other friends so she would often get in the middle of my relationships and spoil them. She ruined like 4 or 5 friendships for me. I cut ties with her completely when I was like 17. I haven't seen her in a long while and I don't miss her...
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    The 11th Man

    When I was younger, it probably was true. I think that is that whole "alpha" thing where young-minded girls want to be with the one who they feel is unattainable. I don't know when it switched for me but if there is a physical attraction there, being nice and kind is a turn-on for me. I don't...
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    What is your comfort zone in a relationship?

    I guess when we can just be in the same room doing our own things and we don't feel any pressure to entertain each other. Like I like to spend time with the person I am with but we don't need to be doing something together non-stop. Just being in the same room doing our own things is often...
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    How many is too many?

    In terms of someone's sexual body count, how many is too many for you to lose interest? A friend of mine stuck to a rule of keeping it under 10 and she still does manage to find men who have only been with single digits but I feel like some might be lying to her, who knows. I haven't been with...
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    Do you think charities give the money to those in need?

    The big ones? No. I never felt they did. One of the biggest scams out there is the Susan G. breast cancer campaign. I see a whole hell of a lot of people who got rich around that cause. I can't remember where I read it cause it was a while ago but some docs leaked on how the taxation and charity...
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    Wayne Brady Hurt By Paul Mooney

    Wayne Brady is a softy. Hard to believe he is a comedian. He is a nice guy but dude, grow some balls. Dave is a standup dude. I had no idea this even went down between them but it shows he is a class act and I am even more of a fan of him now.
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    156 Miles Per Hour

    Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. That poor girl and her dog. They probably didn't even see it coming. The dude is a damn fool. If you can't abide by the very simple rules of the road, you shouldn't be driving. He just threw his entire life in the trash.
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    TBA: Biden Lost the Black Vote in VA - Now What?

    I'm sorry but if you are black and voted for Biden in the first place, you haven't been paying any bit of attention to the dude in politics. Younger folks get a mild pass but people over 35 should know better. I am just saying. The way the voting landed in Virginia is no surprise to me. Gas...
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    I Refuse To Be In Fear In My Own House

    My auntie had a rotty that showed his teeth on the regular and I didn't feel comfortable being at her house. I don't know what it was with him, but I didn't trust him. He just would get this look in his eye. Like no thanks.
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    Do you believe aliens are real?

    Kyrie Irving believes it is possible (or at least did). People are out there who feel that way. I am fine with it. Like, believe what you want. It is healthy to explore and learn about the planet even if it is through conspiracies and random theories. Just don't push it on kids and I have no issue.
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    You Eating At Em's Spot?

    Food is food and if it is good, I will eat it but based on what I have seen of the menu and the pricing, the dude is overcharging on a lot of stuff. Not sure what to make of his food joint though. Seems a bit random.
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    Dating Is Weird

    In the beginning, the relationship is still fresh and it is a compliment without words. But after a while, it can just be annoying if it is done all the time. I don't know, some of us women are weird. lol
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    Keep Eating At Popeyes

    You could be right. I still think he did a good thing and just went about it the wrong way. As you said, he should have recorded it and handed it over to someone else. Like maybe get a local news station involved. They eat that stuff up.
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    Did you fall in love with someone who didn't share the love back?

    Exactly! This is why I always tell female coworkers and friends they need to really value their time and not waste it messing around with clowns. Too many dudes take advantage of the fact that they aren't the ones having children.
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    For sure. I really do feel like for some people, casual commitment is the best road but not for most. Most women and most men need to feel desired and appreciated by one partner. I think you are right that these emotions and feelings don't happen until people hit their 30s which is somewhat of a...
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    Cheater Story

    We can only hope she learned from this experience to not only value herself more but value the time she spends on others. Time, after all, is the be-all-end-all currency in our lives. You can spend it but you can't ever get it back.
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    Did you fall in love with someone who didn't share the love back?

    A man I dated a few years back, I was falling for him. I am not one to through "I love you" around but I did tell him I did. He didn't say it back. I was a bit hurt by it but he did say he isn't there yet. A few months go by and I tell him again and he says the same thing. I broke up with him by...
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    Could you live life without being in a relationship?

    Short term yeah, long term no. I like my space but I also want to have a family and someone to grow old with. I don't like the idea of riding out my 50's and beyond alone.
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    Dating Is Weird

    I hate to say it but I have gotten like this. Like I don't like to be butt smacked after a while but if he doesn't do it, then I think negative things. I think a lot of us women have been conditioned into some weird ways of thinking lol
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    Culture Vultures

    I am sure this is true for some of them but not all of them. I don't like to generalize cause I know what that feels like to have it done to me. I have friends of all backgrounds but they got good heads on them and don't do this mess.