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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    The negative impact changed the culture in America and you can see the change in this through the music alone and the encouragement of living a "thug life" while promoting women to be objects. They destroyed the family system and sadly, this is the root of a lot of issues in America for black...
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    Virginia Election

    People in that state are fed up with Dems and it shows. That dude legit told parents he felt the state had more power and rights over their kids than they did. That sealed the deal. What a dummy. You never declare you are going after anyone's children.
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    How do you deal with loss?

    Going through the loss of a loved one is terrible. I know it can be harder on some than others. Be it an older relative, a close friend, a spouse, child, or even a close pet... How do you deal with loss? What are some things you do during your grieving process that help?
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    Ladies… what’s wrong with Serena’s makeup here

    That is some bad photo work. The make-up is fine, they just overwashed her complexion. The person who edited it was probably used to working on white/lighter-skinned women.
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    Cheater Story

    Holy crap. You can legit be living with someone and not know so much. He took advantage of her being kind and forgiving. I think he knew he could sweet-talk her too. I hade dudes like that. They find women like this and just abuse them mentally and emotionally. I am glad she shared her story...
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    Word bait is word bait. Even if it is used to push across a good message, it is done with the intent to go viral and there is a lot of self-centernessed in it. Maybe I am looking too deep but I have a hard time these days separating a cause or positive message from people with selfish intentions...
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    BE AWARE OF "BLACK OWNED" COMPANIES THAT AREN'T ACTUALLY BLACK OWNED!

    Absolutely. They do it to pat themselves on the back thinking they are doing something to fight racism as if that makes a difference. If anything, it hurts black businesses because racists know who to avoid and what brands not to buy.
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    One Man Band

    I did play that in school, it was part of music class. I wasn't great at it but I am sure it is easy to learn if you keep at it. I just didn't have an interest back then. I feel like as I got older I grew to appreciate music more deeply and admire individual instruments.
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    Ever dated a boss or someone higher up?

    You can't date someone at work who is a higher level than you or you will always run the risk of this. There isn't much you can do about it either, especially not as a guy.
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    U.S. in Talks to Pay Hundreds of Millions to Families Separated at Border

    Looking back at history, the Dems have a longstanding disdain for blacks in America and likely in general. The other side isn't much better and while I feel like they stopped holding us back, they do very little to step up and stand up for us when it comes to injustices. The only time things are...
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    Black Artists of Metal And Hard Rock

    Everyone knows Jimi Hendrix but it seems like a lot of other black artists in the metal and hard rock genres get overlooked. I listen to a bit of everything these days. I am not opposed to giving even metal a try if it hits right but I wanna find actual black artists to listen to in these other...
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    One Man Band

    I don't know how people do this kind of stuff. I struggle to play one instrument much less multiple ones. I am guessing he built that custom as well. I do want to learn at least one instrument though eventually. Would be so cool to be able to create music with my hands.
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    If you came into 5 million tomorrow, what would you do with it?

    Say you won it, inherited, found it, was gifted it, or whatever - If you someone had 5 million tomorrow in your bank account, what would you do with the money? I know a lot of people who would just blow through it in a few years and be worse off than before they had it while others will actually...
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    BE AWARE OF "BLACK OWNED" COMPANIES THAT AREN'T ACTUALLY BLACK OWNED!

    Target does this now where they label everything "black-owned" when the majority owner or the starter of the company itself was black. This is just to appease the white liberals who think they are holier than holy water. If you want to support a black business, do it locally so you know for...
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    Sex in public, know anyone who was into it?

    I have never done the full act in public but I have messed around in public spaces. Very discreetly. A friend of mine gets heavily turned on by it though. Like the thought of getting caught makes her all hot and bothered LOL! Some of the stories she's told me are hilarious. This one time she and...
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    Would you get married to more than one person if it was possible?

    I think the reason this was acceptable back in the day is down to people having large families and needing a lot of hands to work the land (farming and whatnot) so it made sense from that standpoint. I personally wouldn't want this kind of life. I don't want to feel like I have to compete for...
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    Absolutely, it is word bait. She is acting no better than the so-called "journalists" that push opinions as fact and cause issues for everyone. They are just looking for money and clicks, they don't care what words mean.
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    What do you think the impacts are for fatherless homes?

    I have seen some studies done that follow children from like age 8 to 18 and most of the ones who have no father in their life end up getting into all sorts of trouble. Gang violence, drug use, robbery, etc. and what is interesting about this is that race made no difference. White people like to...
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    U.S. in Talks to Pay Hundreds of Millions to Families Separated at Border

    You know why these people are valued over everyone in America, right? It is all for political power. The money they have made off illegals providing seats in congress doesn't even touch what they are handing out. I swear they just want to destroy the country at this point. We need to start...
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    Hood culture in what sense? Urban culture IS black culture. I mean if we want to nitpick here, "hood" just comes from the word "neighborhood" and having a sense of community, trust, tradition, etc. is attached to that. The word "hood" can be used as a positive or negative. I think she means...