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    Gifts and Gift-Giving

    When it comes to buying gifts for lovers, friends, or family - how do you view it? (for birthdays, Christmas, and other special occasions) Do you think there should be an agreeance on what to spend? Should gift-giving come from the heart and money not matter? What about buying gifts for people...
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    Has jealousy ever hurt your relationships?

    When I was younger, I had issues with jealousy. I will admit that. I likely still do but I have been a lot more choosy in who I date. Usually, if a guy gives me a reason not to trust him, all bets are off. I become paranoid and snoop around. My one ex was talking to his ex behind my back and I...
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    Paternity Suit And A Black Judge

    Man, some women are straight stupid. She is happy to be a single mom? Who would celebrate that? I get under certain circumstances it happens but that is nothing to cheer over. That poor little girl. Her mother is a damn fool.
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    YouTube To Disable Dislike Button

    Youtube is run by nothing but asshats and clowns, I swear. This isn't going to help anyone. You know how many scams are on that platform that kids and adults both fall for? How they going to know it isn't a scam now? It is like they are favoring this kind of crap. Do they not think? My brother...
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    I Refuse To Be In Fear In My Own House

    That dog just slid right in like PLAY WITH ME FOOL! lol Dogs that love water are so funny to watch. I bet that is an Australian Shepherd. They are very playful and loyal. I heard they make great family dogs.
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    How many is too many?

    sanaalathanlaugh But for real that is understandable. You were young and having women throw themselves at you had to be a treat. Just hope you did frequent testing! I always hear of stories of young men going to the army and having this happen. It isn't like it isn't a common thing. Some women...
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    How many is too many?

    Truth. I guess it is just a sign of discipline for me. Like I get that guys will sleep around a lot when they are younger, some girls do as well. Exploring and whatnot. I suppose relationship longevity might be an easier way to test and see if a person is for commitment or not. Like this what...
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    Do Black Men Protect Black Women?

    I will say it like it is... A lot of women act like damn fools and expect men to have their backs. If you are out there acting like you are too good for your man or you don't need him, why should he feel obligated to protect you or even respect you? Ladies need to stop objectifying themselves...
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    Favorite shoe brands?

    I feel like as a woman, I have way too many options. Us ladies can wear all sorts of styles whereas men typically only have sneakers, boots, dress shoes, and sandals. We have all sorts of different styled heels, calf-length boots, open-toe/close-toe, etc. I have a hard time sticking with one...
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    YouTube To Disable Dislike Button

    I thought they already did this and reversed it? Was that just a trial? I remember when I was not able to see like or dislike counts for a hot minute and then they were back again.
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    Wayne Brady Hurt By Paul Mooney

    I mean in terms of relations. Like if it comes down to it, he has to be able to protect himself and his family. I have known plenty of soft men who will throw down if they have to.
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    I Refuse To Be In Fear In My Own House

    It probably is true. The smaller one only growled when he was being mean though. I think someone once told me rottys purr and I laughed but I guess the dude meant that they growl when they show affection.
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    The 11th Man

    Gen Z (I think they are called?) are for sure screwed. I think the kids coming up now will have to be raised as a means to balance out the damage but I see a lot of kids being raised in very unhealthy cultural climates that I have to wonder how much worse it will be for them.
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    You Eating At Em's Spot?

    What happened to that brand? I mean I had the earbuds when he first started the brand and they were amazing. I think I paid $120 so not cheap by any means but they were solid. I got insurance on them which I was thankful for cause my ex's cat bit through the wire. I was able to get them replaced...
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    Could you live life without being in a relationship?

    Just make sure you are with a woman who is comfortable with giving you your own space and you won't have any issues. You have a bit more time on your side to be alone. For us ladies, we need to get our crap in order if we want children. lol
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    Black Celebs Keep Showing Why We Shouldn't Follow Them

    I always thought a lot of black celebrities were acting as puppets and hiding really weird stuff behind closed doors. I remember someone talking about how black men were always talked into dressing up as women and how insulting it was but so many black comedians did it. I think Dave Chappelle...
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    Man Executed On The View

    You know, this whole Russia thing went on for over two years. They spent billions of taxpayer dollars on this nonsense and published BS as fact. I feel like everyone involved in this needs to be put on trial and the media outlets who peddled this need to be fined. It should not be okay to get...
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    Pfizer CEO says people who spread misinformation on Covid vaccines are ‘criminals’

    I may be vaccinated for work but I damn sure didn't want it. I feel like something like this shouldn't be forced on people, especially people under 50. There is not enough information on long-term effects yet. For all we know, these vaccines are going to sterilize young people or give us cancer...
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    Are you open to new brands?

    This is a smart move. I think more people need to get into open-source and Linux in general. We shouldn't allow ourselves to be tracked like farm animals with a number that attributes to our value.
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    Wayne Brady Hurt By Paul Mooney

    There is nothing wrong with being a soft man, black or not. That is what I don't get. Like you can be a soft, kind, caring individual and that doesn't make you any less black. I feel like he is feeding into stereotypes. I get what you are saying but I feel differently about it. Maybe that is...