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    Pure breed or mutt/mix?

    When it comes to cats and dogs, assuming you are into them, do you prefer to go for a pure breed or are you okay with adopting mutts and mixes? I grew up with both in terms of dogs but I never had a pure breed cat before. Always wanted one but never put the fund forward to adopt one. Not many...
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    Are You Moving Out Or Is He?

    I saw this clip the other day. While I am not scared of snakes or anything, I would not be messing with him. He knows he is a king and he can kill anything that comes near him. I would just pack my things and leave lol
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    Ladies… what’s wrong with Serena’s makeup here

    They all likely had some level of work done. I think that is a consequence of being in the limelight 24/7, you end up pressured to always look the best you can. Will took a hard hit with his ex and his son going a bit off the rails so I am not surprised the dude is looking a bit shellshocked...
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    One Man Band

    This is true. I have seen a lot of people go about it this way. Just observing, studying, and learning from a distance before actually picking up an instrument and going with it.
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    Cheater Story

    She was in love with him and likely was manipulated by him. I have had friends fall into the same trap. It is easy to fall but hard to get out of. Having a forgiving heart is a powerful thing but if you allow yourself to be around those whose only aim is to take advantage, this is the end...
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    The negative impact changed the culture in America and you can see the change in this through the music alone and the encouragement of living a "thug life" while promoting women to be objects. They destroyed the family system and sadly, this is the root of a lot of issues in America for black...
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    Virginia Election

    People in that state are fed up with Dems and it shows. That dude legit told parents he felt the state had more power and rights over their kids than they did. That sealed the deal. What a dummy. You never declare you are going after anyone's children.
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    How do you deal with loss?

    Going through the loss of a loved one is terrible. I know it can be harder on some than others. Be it an older relative, a close friend, a spouse, child, or even a close pet... How do you deal with loss? What are some things you do during your grieving process that help?
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    Ladies… what’s wrong with Serena’s makeup here

    That is some bad photo work. The make-up is fine, they just overwashed her complexion. The person who edited it was probably used to working on white/lighter-skinned women.
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    Cheater Story

    Holy crap. You can legit be living with someone and not know so much. He took advantage of her being kind and forgiving. I think he knew he could sweet-talk her too. I hade dudes like that. They find women like this and just abuse them mentally and emotionally. I am glad she shared her story...
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    Word bait is word bait. Even if it is used to push across a good message, it is done with the intent to go viral and there is a lot of self-centernessed in it. Maybe I am looking too deep but I have a hard time these days separating a cause or positive message from people with selfish intentions...
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    BE AWARE OF "BLACK OWNED" COMPANIES THAT AREN'T ACTUALLY BLACK OWNED!

    Absolutely. They do it to pat themselves on the back thinking they are doing something to fight racism as if that makes a difference. If anything, it hurts black businesses because racists know who to avoid and what brands not to buy.
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    One Man Band

    I did play that in school, it was part of music class. I wasn't great at it but I am sure it is easy to learn if you keep at it. I just didn't have an interest back then. I feel like as I got older I grew to appreciate music more deeply and admire individual instruments.
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    Ever dated a boss or someone higher up?

    You can't date someone at work who is a higher level than you or you will always run the risk of this. There isn't much you can do about it either, especially not as a guy.
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    U.S. in Talks to Pay Hundreds of Millions to Families Separated at Border

    Looking back at history, the Dems have a longstanding disdain for blacks in America and likely in general. The other side isn't much better and while I feel like they stopped holding us back, they do very little to step up and stand up for us when it comes to injustices. The only time things are...
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    Black Artists of Metal And Hard Rock

    Everyone knows Jimi Hendrix but it seems like a lot of other black artists in the metal and hard rock genres get overlooked. I listen to a bit of everything these days. I am not opposed to giving even metal a try if it hits right but I wanna find actual black artists to listen to in these other...
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    One Man Band

    I don't know how people do this kind of stuff. I struggle to play one instrument much less multiple ones. I am guessing he built that custom as well. I do want to learn at least one instrument though eventually. Would be so cool to be able to create music with my hands.
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    If you came into 5 million tomorrow, what would you do with it?

    Say you won it, inherited, found it, was gifted it, or whatever - If you someone had 5 million tomorrow in your bank account, what would you do with the money? I know a lot of people who would just blow through it in a few years and be worse off than before they had it while others will actually...
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    BE AWARE OF "BLACK OWNED" COMPANIES THAT AREN'T ACTUALLY BLACK OWNED!

    Target does this now where they label everything "black-owned" when the majority owner or the starter of the company itself was black. This is just to appease the white liberals who think they are holier than holy water. If you want to support a black business, do it locally so you know for...
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    Sex in public, know anyone who was into it?

    I have never done the full act in public but I have messed around in public spaces. Very discreetly. A friend of mine gets heavily turned on by it though. Like the thought of getting caught makes her all hot and bothered LOL! Some of the stories she's told me are hilarious. This one time she and...