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    Owning a house before meeting the right person?

    I mentioned in a few other threads that I plan on buying a house next year. Assuming I get enough debts paid off, I can swing it on my wages. I am looking at getting a raise as well within the next 6 months. I was thinking about this though. Like I am going to be a single homeowner. What would...
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    Women Describe Their Perfect Penis

    LOL what is this? I mean if we are being real, the penis size is dependent on the vagina size. Some women are small and some are much larger. Obviously, a smaller one wouldn't have a good time with a big ol' sausage stabbing them half to death! It probably depends on your overall size as well...
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    Do you have a 5-year plan?

    I feel like once you hit your 20s, having a 5-year plan is a good idea. It helps you establish goals for yourself and see growth and where you need to work on your life. I am curious to see if anyone here has a 5-year plan currently. For me - I am looking to pay off some debts, buy a house, and...
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    When did you "wake up"?

    I guess I am lucky to say that I haven't encountered many acts against me. Just a few but I never held it in my heart and let it destroy my plans. I feel like black men get targeted more than black women though so that could be why I haven't experienced it a whole lot. I also grew up having a...
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    VHS to Digital capture devices

    The price might have come down, never know. Worth looking into. I mean from a privacy and security standpoint, doing it yourself is probably the better option. So long as it is cost-efficient, go that route for sure.
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    I'm glad Jerry Springer and shows like his are dying out

    The incentives are there and so long as they exist, it will keep happening. A friend was showing me that trend of stealing random things from their school. A lot of these schools are public and have minimal funding on top of it. Kids truly do not think, do they? I feel like most used to grow out...
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    Stupid Laws

    Been a while since I had McD's breakfast. I used to get it a few times a week and it started hitting my waistline and making me feel ill. I had to give it up. I loved their sausage biscuits tho. Just the plain ones. The chicken ones were good but I preferred the other. I'd get one of those...
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    Did you ever know someone who kept you around as a backup?

    Some people can be so petty. It is almost like they get off on being jerks. I used to have a friend who would basically use men to get what she wanted and keep some for backup if she couldn't find anyone new. Glad I am not friends with her anymore. She was so toxic.
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    ROMs and Emulators

    @Nesut SNES ROMs Download - Free Super Nintendo Games
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    ROMs and Emulators

    Going to hop on my PC before I head to work and get back to you shortly. I forgot to come back on here last night when I got home, my bad!
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    That is a question that seems to be debated on depending on who you ask. A lot of men like being providers but not all of them do. I guess this comes down to who you date. I have met some who would rather be in a relationship that equated to that of a business partnership where both work, both...
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    Stupid Laws

    I've done it myself when I had leftovers. I even added eggs to the meal for extra protein. Screw cereal and pancakes, I am more into protein for the first meal anyway!
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    This makes sense and I can see it within my own interactions. Men often will want to feel "needed" but they don't want to be with a woman who is "needy" or one they or their friends would view as a gold digger. I feel like there is an importance here that a lot of people, both men and women...
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    Differences between dating and marriage

    Dating should be viewed as a trial run for marriage. If you are not happy with the person you are dating, why continue dating them or God forbid marry them? I feel like if people were more open to waiting for sex to get to know each other today, we'd all make better and healthier relationship...
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    Have you ever had a close friend move away?

    That is what sucks. Once enough time passes and you grow apart, it feels awkward trying to reconnect and stuff. I have had this problem myself with a friend from the past. Damn shame too. We were so close at one point.
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    Stupid Laws

    I love a good thick chicken breast grilled to perfection in some sweet bbq sauce. Man, it is too damn early to be craving chicken! I didn't even eat breakfast! lol
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    ROMs and Emulators

    I'm on my laptop right now but when I am on my PC I will try to remember to come back and link you to the site where I found a lot of them. I can't recall if Batman was on there or not but I wasn't looking for it. Mostly SNES, 64 and PS1 games I think. I might get some Wii games as well but...
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    I'm glad Jerry Springer and shows like his are dying out

    Just because the shows are fading doesn't mean the behavior is going anywhere. I see nothing but clowns and trash being promoted on social media when it comes to black people. Like is this the only crap that goes viral for us? Catfights, hoodrat dances in the streets, family disputes put on...
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    What artists from the '90s were you into?

    I prefer rap and hip-hop from the '90s myself, heck even the r&b had more soul to it. I am curious to see who you all were into back in the '90s. I was quite young at the start but I got into music nearing the end of the decade and ended up going back a handful of years to find my taste in...
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    I always see this being promoted among women be it female groups, friend circles, in movies, shows, etc. as being the best thing for women but I often wonder how men feel about this. Do men actually like "independent" women or would they rather have dependent women?