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    Do you have any resolutions for 2022 or goals you want to reach?

    I am not sure if I asked this here or not or if someone else had, my apologies if a thread already exists for this. I am curious if anyone here has any plans though or goals they are looking for reach for the new year. I am kind of in limbo right now. I have some options, some moves I can make...
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    Avoiding Family During the Holidays

    I have a friend at work who does this every year. She signs up to work double shifts Christmas week just to say she can't go to the family dinner and avoid the holiday with her family. We never get too in deep about things but I did ask her the other day why she doesn't like Christmas. She said...
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    Do you think social media is creating less fulfilling relationships?

    I been thinking about this for a while. It seems like a lot of people come and go from relationships like chewed bubblegum these days. I can't help but make the connection to social media. Like where people go to get validation and feel-good hormones released and soon as it wears out, they need...
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    Kinks and Fetishes

    I thought I would make a thread for this. I know some people have some mild/tame kinks and fetishes and some people out there act all kinds of nasty. I don't like to kink shame though and I try my best not to. So long as what you are doing is legal, with consent, and in the privacy of your own...
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    What are your thoughts on the things happening in Australia, Germany, Austria, etc.?

    These three spots among a few others have declared forced lockdowns in "camps" for people who are not vaccinated, for people who have come into contact with those who tested positive (regardless of vax status), as well as people that are causing "issues". People are coming out in different...
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    Do you use a smartwatch?

    Curious to see who here uses them and if you all do, how much. I am seeing more and more people wearing them non-stop. I had one and didn't use it much. I ended up dropping it in a pool last year and never replaced it. Was considering it but eh. I am not sure if I would make use of it or not...
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    What do you wear on a first date?

    As I mentioned in another thread, I will be going on a date this upcoming weekend (on the 10th). I got the day off from work and I plan to go shopping earlier in the day to find something nice to wear. It has been a while since I actually formally went on a date. I am looking forward to it! I am...
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    You ever have a pet come between you and someone else?

    This is something I almost exclusively see with white couples but I have seen it with someone who I work with who is a mixed man. He and his partner both love animals and decided to adopt a dog together shortly after moving in together. Well, his partner has grown pretty attached to the dog so...
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    Respecting Privacy

    When it comes to respecting someone else's privacy, and they respecting yours - What do you think crosses the line? We live in the day and age of social media, dating apps, texting, and so on. It is very easy to get caught up in things you never intended or give your partner the wrong idea when...
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    What does your family do for Christmas?

    I know not everyone celebrates it and they don't celebrate it the same way. Holidays like Christmas have always been a time for family for me so I have always enjoyed them. On Christmas Eve, we usually get some pizza and wings and sit around playing board games and stuff. We do gifts in the...
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    Doing the deed while family is close by?

    This is something I couldn't ever do, even when I was younger. I have a friend though who lives with her parents still and her boyfriend moved in with them. They give them money and buy groceries which is fine I guess, it ends up being cheaper than rent and they are trying to save. Anyway, her...
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    Do you like the snow or no?

    I am probably one of the few people in my area that actually enjoys it. I like cold weather. Most people around here complain though. I like watching the snowfall. It is nice having my candles lit and looking outside at night seeing it fall. It is relaxing to me. I don't like driving in it when...
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    How would you handle your partner gaining weight?

    I see it all the time. Couples get comfy with each other and they put on weight. Sometimes it is both, sometimes it is only one. In cases where it is only one, how would you handle it if your partner put on weight? Would you care/would it bother you? If so - How would you approach letting them know?
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    Haircare tips?

    What are some haircare things you learned over the years worth sharing? I am always looking for new ways to keep my natural hair strong and healthy. This can be for both women and men. We all have to take care of our hair and keep things healthy.
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    Why are men painting their nails now?

    I mean I know it was a thing for like goth guys, skaters, and people into rock and roll but now I see everyday dudes using it like it isn't a big deal. I don't know where I was when this trend started but it seems to be everywhere. I keep seeing rappers, actors, etc. with painted nails. I am not...
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    $7.4 billion spent on Friday

    You see this? They set a record for online shopping this past Black Friday online. There are predictions that Cyber Monday will pull in $9.4 billion. This is worldwide sales mind you but damn. Like I thought people were meant to be watching their spending. lol I do all my shopping prior to these...
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    Telling signs of an abusive relationship?

    I have had some suspicions that one of the girls I work with is in an abusive relationship. I have wanted to say something for a month now but I don't want her to take it the wrong way. She started at our clinic in October so I don't really know her all that well. We have only worked together a...
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    Does anyone listen to video game remixes?

    This is a guilty pleasure of mine. I know it isn't for everyone but I love a lot of the tracks people produce. There are tons of people who make them these days. I usually just find new tracks through GameChops. GlitchxCity does some bangers:
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    You like tacos?

    This is a bit random but outside of like 3 spots (one of them being Taco Bell) we don't have taco places around here. The one place isn't a chain or anything. They do some pretty good chicken tacos but the cost went up too much to eat there and justify it. I think this is down to inflation and...
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    Whether you decide to celebrate the day or not, I just watched to say I wish you all a blessed and fulfilled Thanksgiving. Enjoy the time with your friends and family. Enjoy the food. Make amazing memories. Life is too short. I am about to get ready to head out to my parent's house for the day...