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A friend of mine's fiance has a cousin who she wants to set me up with. He is a light skin dude (mixed) with pretty green eyes. She wants us to go to the wedding together but was hoping we could actually date first and go as a couple. They are getting married at the end of January. I saw some...

I keep reading and hearing about people having food shortages and trouble finding certain things but I have yet to see it. I mean some stuff is stocked lighter on the shelves and I might have to go to two stores instead of one to get what I need but nothing as bad as other people have been...

In terms of the physical body, what are some things you find most attractive about men or women (or both)? For me, I have always preferred taller men. This is not to say I have not dated shorter men, I just have a preference for height. I like to feel small. I know that sounds silly but it is...

I used to watch the NBA and the NFL. I was never big into baseball, hockey, MMA, or any of the other sports though but I did love basketball and football at one point. As I got a bit older, I started losing interest. I don't think I watch a full season of the NFL since 2013 and I stopped...

I know in music, it was not always the case. There have been plenty of female singers who sung songs about love, softness, femininity, loving their men etc. but it seems like in the '90s everything switched. There was more of a focus on promoting women "not needing no man" and it seems like the...

In terms of what you have/hold high value for - Which is the most important for you? 1. Physical intimacy // affection // sex 2. Emotion support // conversation // bonded intellect 3. Finacial stability // support // being provided for Assume trust is included in any of these. If you had to...

I am considering it cause I grew up on Nintendo and I still like a lot of the classic titles. I haven't read up much on it but I heard it was going to feature an OLED panel which should be a decent upgrade. I am just not sure if it will be worth the cost.

I know this is a traditional mindset and one that I have held since my teens. I never wanted to have children before marriage and I did a good job of making sure it didn't happen. That being said, what are your thoughts don't he subject? I know marriage is not a foolproof standard that will...

I noticed this with appliances, furniture, bedding, etc. and comparing it to some hand-me-downs from my mom and grandma the stuff just doesn't compare. Like I just bought a new sofa not even 2 years ago and it is flat as a pancake, makes all sorts of noise, and the fabric looks like it has...

I am not sure if this was a topic that was discussed here already or not. I am curious to see if anyone has had a successful LDR though. I am not talking about living within driving distance but actually needing to fly out to see each other. Like a long-distance relationship that is MILES away...

I don't have a hard time with this irl but online, it can be a bit hazy. I always see white people supporting blacks and black communities but I know for sure a lot of them are just doing it to make themselves look better and feel better which is a cop-out and pathetic to me. I know there are...

When it comes to fast food, I try to limit my consumption. It tends to be high in salt, fat, and other junk that just isn't healthy. At the same time though, it is convenient and in a pinch, it is nice to just be able to pick up on the way to or from work. I want to find healthier or healthish...

I read a lot about toxins and their effects on the human body, brain, and hormones. We made a switch to toxic plastics as production ramped up to cut costs. Eventually importing these plastics from places like China (known for their hatred of blacks, Muslims, and gay folk). I read some studies...

When it comes to buying gifts for lovers, friends, or family - how do you view it? (for birthdays, Christmas, and other special occasions) Do you think there should be an agreeance on what to spend? Should gift-giving come from the heart and money not matter? What about buying gifts for people...

I feel like as a woman, I have way too many options. Us ladies can wear all sorts of styles whereas men typically only have sneakers, boots, dress shoes, and sandals. We have all sorts of different styled heels, calf-length boots, open-toe/close-toe, etc. I have a hard time sticking with one...

I think for most of us, we tend to have a few brands that we like and stick with for our tech needs. I was like this for a long time. I was always an LG, Samsung, or HP gal and wouldn't buy anything be it a phone, monitor, TV, screen, tablet, or whatever that wasn't any of those brands. I...

In terms of someone's sexual body count, how many is too many for you to lose interest? A friend of mine stuck to a rule of keeping it under 10 and she still does manage to find men who have only been with single digits but I feel like some might be lying to her, who knows. I haven't been with...

When it comes to cats and dogs, assuming you are into them, do you prefer to go for a pure breed or are you okay with adopting mutts and mixes? I grew up with both in terms of dogs but I never had a pure breed cat before. Always wanted one but never put the fund forward to adopt one. Not many...

Going through the loss of a loved one is terrible. I know it can be harder on some than others. Be it an older relative, a close friend, a spouse, child, or even a close pet... How do you deal with loss? What are some things you do during your grieving process that help?

Everyone knows Jimi Hendrix but it seems like a lot of other black artists in the metal and hard rock genres get overlooked. I listen to a bit of everything these days. I am not opposed to giving even metal a try if it hits right but I wanna find actual black artists to listen to in these other...