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    Do compliments depend on looks?

    Did you ever notice how compliments are taken differently depending on how the person looks? What I mean by this is that a very attractive, well-dressed man can give any woman a compliment and it will always be taken well whereas coming from someone who is not very attractive, not dressed well...
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    "Honey"..."Babe"...."Beautiful"..."etc."...

    Overall I don't mind them but it really depends on the context. There is a time and a place to use this kind of dialog. I work at a clinic and some older coworkers, especially the ladies, will throw around "sweety" or "honey" and that is fine but you won't hear the doctors talking like this to...
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    The Church & the State Have the Same Problem

    The more I sit back and just watch things happen and watch what people do, the more I see stuff like this. What I mean by the title and the above is that the church and the state have the same problem where there are people involved that aren't out to make a better community or uplift others...
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    The Black American Heritage Flag

    I am all for people proudly supporting and uplifting their heritage. I think it helps a community to grow and come together more so when important things need to be addressed, everyone is on board and doing their part.
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    I can't remember the name of the guy but a while back I was watching a YouTube video where this man explained that at the foundation of any healthy family is a strong woman. Everything is built off her compassion, rationality, soft hand, and nurturing. This kind of woman makes for a better man...
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    Blow Darting African Americans? Excuse me, what!?

    https://www.projectveritas.com/news/fda-official-blow-dart-african-americans-with-covid-vaccine-is-where-were/ This is the US FDA Economist saying this. You can read the entire thing in the full context by going to the link. These are the people we are meant to trust with our health and safety...
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    Do you take any vitamins?

    I started paying more attention to my health when I became a nurse. I somewhat got obsessed with it as I see a lot of unhealthy people on a weekly basis. It scares me a bit. One thing I try to do is ensure my body gets what it needs. I don’t eat the best but I am improving my diet as I go. I...
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    Biden's Border Patrol Out Here Whipping Haitians

    Those are just the reins they use with the horse. It is meant to direct the horse. You usually whip them to keep people from getting too close to the horse as they can be injured, it causes the horse to buck. I only know this because my one uncle owns a farm and has 2 horses. The context is...
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    What are some signs it is a fetish?

    Damn, I would have done the same! That had to be so awkward. Like no matter how attractive a person is, there is a level of degrading behavior that should just not be acceptable by anyone. I have read things online from both men and women and they settled for being an object because the other...
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    Exactly! And I don't know if it is just me or not but I think homemakers are strong and beautiful women. They are supportive, loyal, mind their own and want to make their man happy. I know this kind of life is not for everyone but I am perfectly capable of being happy in it. I would much rather...
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    Do you keep in touch with any childhood friends?

    For sure. Drama queens. I don't have time for them. I have to focus on getting my life on order and productive. Constantly getting involved in other people's drama and problems is so draining too. If you want to keep on the path, you do you but some of us got places to go!
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    COVID-19 Megathread

    So there are some more things coming out that are basically confirming this was a lab leak but with intentions. Supposedly, some whistle-blowers in China are saying they did everything on purpose. They thought "why should our economy be the only one that suffers?" and they did very little to...
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    Diabetes rates in black women nearly double that of white women – WTF?

    Oh I have no issue with them promoting to love your body and accept it as you are but when you accept that you are overweight and do nothing about it, you only gain more weight and end up another statistic. I think the market thing is true as well. Black areas are encouraged to eat at places...
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    Think the XFL will come back in full force?

    My brother was getting hyped over this years ago when they talked about bringing it back. I still don't think it can compete with the NFL or the college league. When it comes to sports, people care more about the sport itself and their own team. Like if I am going to watch a football game, I...
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    Do you keep in touch with any childhood friends?

    All the friends I had growing up either moved away, or I outgrew them. They kind of stayed the same from the age of 16 and stopped maturing. Kept doing the same old thing and making the same old mistakes. I made new friends in college and through work.
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    Diabetes rates in black women nearly double that of white women – WTF?

    I will be honest, it didn’t hit me hard until I saw an article about it and looked into it more. I thought more about it myself because I work at a clinic. I see more black women with this issue than white women and more women in general as compared to men. They say your risk of diabetes...
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    Anyone hear about this?

    Yeah, I have heard of this. There are a few other areas like this as well. I can't remember what place it was but a handful of years back, they had some flooding issues and unearthed some corroded pipe systems that were poisoning people. Water is a very basic thing and should be tested...
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    What are some signs it is a fetish?

    Okay, this makes sense. Like a person can be attracted to a certain race (and have a preference for it over others) but if the focus of the entire person deals with their culture, heritage, or skin color then it is clearly a fetish. I know we can't help who we are attracted to but I also know...
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    Crashing parties and other events

    That is kind of the true definition of crashing right there. Just showing up and not knowing one person. lol I can't say I know anyone who has ever done that. Has to be an interesting thing. I can bet people at these parties are thinking "who knows these people?" lol
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    What are some signs it is a fetish?

    I am an open person. I have dated different types of men be it race, background, height, or weight but it is clear that there are some real weird people out there who look to fetishize these things. I have met men who will only date Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean) and they were white or...